Parent-Child Activities That Promote Self-Confidence

• Let your toddler do it “By myself!”   Give your toddler the opportunity to practice “big kid” skills like choosing his own snack (from a selection of healthy options), washing his faces or body in the bath (with close supervision), or brushing his teeth (of course, you get a turn, too).

• Follow your child’s lead.  When you take a walk with your toddler, you may want to show him the neat bug crawling along the sidewalk.  But your toddler may be more fascinated with the garbage truck.  When you follow your child’s lead and let him follow his interests, he feels supported, loved and important, you build his confidence and self-esteem.

• Let your child be a family helper. Give your child tasks that match his age and skills.  After you slice the strawberries, ask him to put them into the oatmeal bowl.  When he drops his elbow macaroni on the floor, ask him to help you pick them up.  Have him help you put napkins and spoons on the table while you set down the forks and knives.  Helping out makes children feel good about themselves and builds their confidence.